When you are having sex, there’s one spot which you love. It can be your partner’s spot too! That spot, which hits you differently, we are digging into it. The G-Spot.
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That moan from an orgasm is a stress buster. Sex improves your skin, mental health, keeps you happy and evolves into a fully functioning human being. Orgasms — that’s what we women struggle for with every sex we have. Trying to get the right spot while masturbating or having sex is a continuous hustle.
Did you know that it is highly uncommon for women to have orgasms through intercourse alone?
A study done in the year 2017 states that only 18 percent of women achieve orgasm through penetration alone! That’s a tiny number out there! Many women don’t even experience orgasm, to begin with. Are you one of them? Struggling to find the mysterious G-Spot?
It’s not impossible at the same time it’s not necessary. Sex or masturbation is purely for sexual pleasures, that’s one thing you got to do to enjoy. But if you are seeking one great orgasm, let’s debug the myth of G-Spot and where to find it.
Also, before we hit start, remember that many consider this as a myth and there’s also a study that says that Vaginal Orgasms don’t exist. We’ll leave it on you to judge this.
What is a G-Spot?
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The Grafenberg Spot, also known as the G- Spot is a concept introduced by Dr. Beverly Whipple. She discovered this spot by using the “come here” motion of fingers inside a vagina producing amazing physical responses in the majority of women’s bodies. Later, she believed that this was the key to a cosmic orgasmic experience for women.
We bet you have heard of the G-Spot term before and have tried using it on you or your partner. But do you think it’s real? We cannot assure that part but we can say that it, for sure, is complicated! G-Spot, according to research, is not a distinct part of your anatomy. It’s not something separate or a button-like feature which you hit and orgasm, No! In fact, it is a part of your huge clitoral network.
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How can you find it?
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For now, G-Spot exists — at least try assuming it if you don’t believe otherwise.
Locating the G-Spot is difficult. Why? Because it is not present in the anatomy and it varies its position from woman to woman based on their clitoral network. How to make this easier? Try self-exploration instead of partner sex, or tell your partner to help you explore yourself.
So start by first believing there’s one, and relax your body. Don’t be in a rush to figure it out and orgasm right there. Be patient. Begin exploring within the vagina and try different spots. See what makes you feel good and relaxed, which point makes your body react well. It is highly recommended to not begin masturbation directly. You need to turn yourself on, slowly. By touching the outer walls of the vagina, your breasts, body or anything that makes you feel sexy in that zone.
For the G — Spot, push your fingers or sex toy upwards near the belly button and do the “come here” movement by fingers inside. Keep moving the positions so you know what exactly hits you. Every person has their own erogenous zones, it’s not a constant formula for all. Work on it, a treasure hunt, you can call it.
The best sex positions to stimulate the G Spot
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There are various sex positions that help you to stimulate your G-Spot if you don’t want to explore on your own. Sex positions like Cow Girl which gives you full control, or Doggy Style in which the G-Spot is stimulated properly, or you can also try closed Missionary as it is proven the best to hit the spot for you. Once it does, tell your partner about it so they can work on it more.
Oh, forgot to mention the terrific, leg trembling and earth-shattering sex position, the Prone bone. Give it a try and let us know ;)
Final Verdict -
Science says that G-Spot is not a part of anatomy but an extension of the clitoral network. So yes, it exists. Call it what you want — potato, potahtah!
Try figuring out your spot
Can’t feel it?
Don’t be hard on yourself. Sex is about enjoying not hustling, you already do that enough.
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